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"Small acts of kindness can change and humanise our world."
   Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks 1948-2020
   ​Chief Rabbi of Great Britain, 1991-2020
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Truth Be Told

9/29/2015

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“I meant what I said, and I said what I meant. An elephant’s faithful one hundred per cent.”
                                                                                     from Horton Hatches the Egg
                                                                          by Theodore Geisel writing as Dr. Seuss

       When I was young, but old enough to know a few things about telling the truth, I developed a small bump on the tip of my tongue. My mom told me how I got it. "It comes from telling a lie," she said with such conviction that I believed her for many, many years.
       I don't know why I occasionally developed those bunps. I haven't had one in decades! I know (think) now that it was some cosmic coincidence.
       Lying is my default to avoid hurting someone's feelings. I fight it by looking for balance between truth and kindness..
       Lying is sometimes easier than telling the truth, like when I want someone to think I'm smarter about a subject: movie stars, popular music or fashion, than I really am. A little face-saving device I put on. Like nodding in agreement when I don't know what I'm agreeing about. I can always look up someone or some thing when I get home. Sometimes I do.
       I don't think there is ever a good reason for a whopper, though. Those always lead to trouble. Speaking practically, it is usually easier to tell the truth, in a way. At least I don't have a whole bunch of stories I need to keep track of. But it takes courage to admit it when I am wrong. It is an act of bravery to tell someone how I really feel. Stakes are high whether my feelings are good or whether they are bad. I'm working on it.
       Lies and truth matter--to my relationships with other people, to my relationship with myself and to my relationship with the world.
       Horton found out that truth reaps great rewards!

                                                                  --stay curious!
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